Authors' NotesIntroductionI. How staff and volunteer training can enhance victim
safetyII. How risk assessment tools help staff identify
dangersHow Most Risk Assessments Were CreatedWhat are commonly identified risks?Who conducts risk assessment?Other inherent limitationsPragmatic ApproachesIII. How incidents of domestic violence and stalking
can be reduced at programsPreventing additional episodes of domestic violence
and stalking at supervised visitation programsResponding to incidents of domestic violence and
stalking behaviors at supervised visitationCourts holding batterers accountableIV. How liability issues can be addressed by
programsV. How court orders can increase protection for
victims and childrenSpecific Court Order InformationOther Sample Provisions for Court OrdersVI. How programs can avoid unintended outcomes in
program record keepingIntake RecordsObservation ReportsEnvironmental IssuesFormat IssuesEvaluations and RecommendationsConclusionSix Crucial Issues in Supervised VisitationKaren OehmeClearinghouse on Supervised Visitation,
Florida State UniversitySharon MaxwellClearinghouse on Supervised Visitation,
Florida State University
Publication Date:
September 1, 2004Table of ContentsAuthors' NotesIntroductionI. How staff and volunteer training can enhance victim
safetyII. How risk assessment tools help staff identify
dangersHow Most Risk Assessments Were CreatedWhat are commonly identified risks?Who conducts risk assessment?Other inherent limitationsPragmatic ApproachesIII. How incidents of domestic violence and stalking
can be reduced at programsPreventing additional episodes of domestic violence
and stalking at supervised visitation programsResponding to incidents of domestic violence and
stalking behaviors at supervised visitationCourts holding batterers accountableIV. How liability issues can be addressed by
programsV. How court orders can increase protection for
victims and childrenSpecific Court Order InformationOther Sample Provisions for Court OrdersVI. How programs can avoid unintended outcomes in
program record keepingIntake RecordsObservation ReportsEnvironmental IssuesFormat IssuesEvaluations and RecommendationsConclusion
Authors' Notes
This project was supported by Grant No. 2003-WT-BX-K020, awarded by the Violence Against Women Office, Office of Justice Programs, U.S. Department of Justice. Points of view in this document are those of the authors and do not necessarily represent the official position or policies of the U.S. Department of Justice.
Introduction
Judges and battered women's advocates support the
development of supervised visitation programs in communities
struggling to address crimes such as domestic violence, child
abuse, and stalking.
(1)1See, e.g. Amy B. Levin, Child Witnesses of Domestic
Violence: How Should Judges Apply the Best Interests of the
Child Standard in Custody and Visitation Cases Involving
Domestic Violence,47 U.C.L.A. L. Rev. 813 (2000) stating that
courts should use supervised visitation programs to keep
children and victims safe.Whether supervised
visitation programs are considered valuable to those affected
by domestic violence in the long term, however, depends
largely on whether programs can provide a safe setting in the
short-term. This article describes six crucial issues that
may decide how victims, their children, and their communities
experience supervised visitation. These issues, based upon
research and experience from supervised visitation providers
nationally, are: how staff and volunteer training can enhance
victim safety; how risk assessment tools can help staff
identify dangers; how stalking can be reduced at supervised
visitation programs; how liability issues can be addressed at
programs; how court orders can increase protection for
victims and children; and how staff can avoid unintended
outcomes in program record keeping.
I. How staff and volunteer training can enhance victim
safety
Supervised visitation programs offer parent-child contact
in the presence of a third party in a neutral setting.
(2)2New York Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to
Children Professionals' Handbook on Providing Supervised
Visitation,Anne Reiniger, Ed. (2000) at 12, (hereinafter
NYSPCC).Many supervised visitation programs use or
will use some combination of paid staff, student interns, and
volunteer workers at some point during the time they provide
services.
(3)3Nancy Thoennes and Jessica Pearson,
Supervised Visitation: A Profile of Providers,37
FAM. &CONCILIATION CTS.REV 123, 138
(1999).There are only a few formal studies of
supervised visitation programs, but all indicate that a
varied experience level of workers is used to monitor visits.
(4)4id.Whatever staffing options are used,
one caveat must be kept in mind: volunteers and paid staff
must grasp the complex dynamics of domestic violence so that
they do not cause further harm to domestic violence victims,
their children, other program participants and/or staff. For
example, untrained volunteers or staff who do not understand
the dynamics of domestic violence may view as unremarkable
batterers' efforts to have children convey messages back to
the other parent. These personnel may even examine such
messages, and upon finding them facially benign, allow them
to be received by the victim. Allowing such a message to pass
from the batterer to the victim - not understanding the
hidden messages, or the feelings of vulnerability experienced
by the victim - can cause indescribable trauma to the victim,
who has been promised by staff that the visitation program
offers safety and understanding.
Likewise, an untrained staff member may increase the
actual risk a victim may experience by allowing a batterer to
see what car the victim arrives in or gain access to program
records regarding where the victim and children are staying.
Ignorance of batterer tactics is also a result of lack of
training, and can allow staff to be manipulated by the very
people they are hired to supervise. Batterers can convince
staff that they are innocent of claims against them, and that
the need for vigilance at visits has been exaggerated in
their case.
The founders of the supervised visitation movement in the
U.S. recognized the need for staff training in domestic
violence, recommending that training should ensure
"familiarity with issues about visits related to family
violence," and "differing forms of dynamics of partner and
child abuse."
(5)5Standards and Guidelines for Supervised Visitation
Practice, Sec. 11.1 (b) and 11.2 a (1), The Supervised
Visitation Network, found in the NYSPCC handbook, supra, note
2.The guidelines developed by these pioneers,
however, do not provide specificity regarding the topics on
which training is necessary, and there is currently no
certification that the training is being accomplished. Other
groups who are often enlisted by the courts to assist
battered women (such as Guardians ad Litem and parenting
evaluators) have also explicitly recognized the need for
training in domestic violence.
(6)6See, e.g. National CASA Volunteer Training Manual,
available at
http://www.casanet.org/training/volunteer-manual/index.htm (last
viewed August 20, 2004) see Chapter Two for Domestic Violence
Training.
In the past decade, supervised visitation programs have
been asked to take cases involving custody and domestic
violence in addition to dependency and other types of family
law referrals. In fact, an important source of funding has
been the federal Safe Havens: Supervised Visitation and Safe
Exchange Grant Program (Safe Havens) funding under the
Violence Against Women Act
(7)742 U.S.C.A.
§
10420 (a) (West Supp. 2002) The Safe Havens for
Children Pilot Programs provides for the awarding of grants
to states, units of local government, and Indian Tribal
governments that propose to enter into or expand the scope of
existing contacts and cooperative agreements with public and
private non-profit entities to provide supervised visitation
and safe exchange of children by and between parents in
situations involving domestic violence, child abuse, sexual
assault, or stalking.of 2000 which has resulted in
the development and expansion of supervised visitation
programs across the U.S.
In order to maximize the security that all supervised
visitation programs offer -- including, but not limited to
Safe Havens grantees -- they must ensure that all staff and
volunteers are thoroughly trained--initially and periodically
-- in the dynamics of domestic violence. This training would
begin with, but go far beyond, the power and control dynamics
of domestic violence - often referred to as DV 101. The fact
is that there has been much work to identify the
co-occurrence of domestic violence in child maltreatment
cases, and to recognize how batterers can use the court
system to gain sympathy and custody of their children.
(8)8See, e.g. LUNDY BANCROFT and JAY G. SILVERMAN, THE
BATTERER AS PARENT:ADDRESSING THE IMPACT OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE
ON FAMILY DYNAMICS (Sage Publications, 2002).These
are complex dynamics that require providers to be familiar
with the research literature, to discuss the issues with
domestic violence advocates and to listen to the experience
of victims. Training should be taught by those persons in a
community who have direct experience working with victims and
perpetrators of domestic violence and who are able to discuss
how battering affects the entire family, how children are
used as weapons against the victim, how batterers and incest
perpetrators share common characteristics, and how parenting
evaluators and other interveners can easily overlook these
dynamics. In-depth information on co-occurring child
maltreatment and domestic violence, and on non-offending
parents, including role-play activities and opportunities to
speak directly to survivors, is an important part of this
training. Programs should partner with a domestic violence
agency, such as a shelter to provide the training or to
advise on topics. Some programs may find themselves faced
with a noncustodial parent whom they suspect is the actual
victim: the litigant who has been abused is now faced with
supervision of his or her contact with the children.
Understanding how this can happen, and how programs can work
to accommodate victims in this scenario, is also an essential
component of supervised visitation --and judicial
(9)9This issue also raises concerns about judicial
training in domestic violence and supervised visitation, but
that topic is left for other articles to explore. See, e.g.
Meier, supra note 11 at 707.-- training. For
example, if the program suspects that the court erred and the
custodial parent is the batterer, the program should have the
flexibility to require the custodial parent to arrive first
with the child, to help prevent stalking on-site. Supervised
visitation providers, and the clients they serve, will
benefit from in-depth training. If they are federally funded,
(10)10Under the Safe Havens Program, supra note
10.programs must have Memoranda of Understanding
with their local domestic violence victim services program
and may be trained by the staff of that domestic violence
program; if they follow the guidelines of the Supervised
Visitation Network,
(11)11The international Supervised Visitation Network
publishes its Standards and Guidelines online at
www.svnetwork.net. Section 20.2, Partner Abuse, 11.2
,Training Requirements.they should seek out
training in domestic violence issues; and if they are in a
state with Minimum Standards,
(12)12Three states that have attempted to create minimum
standards are California (Cal. Rules of Ct. Standards of
Judicial Administration),Kansas (Child Exchange and
Visitation Center Guidelines), and Florida (Minimum Standards
for Supervised Visitation program Agreements). All require
training for staff in domestic violence.they are
usually required to have staff training on domestic violence.
The key here is that this training must be thorough and
ongoing within a structure developed in conjunction with
battered women's advocates in each community.
The problem of untrained staff and volunteers is
preventable: programs should develop screening policies for
staff and volunteers; mandate pre-service training on
domestic violence and in-service training on domestic
violence; and, provide appropriate supervision of domestic
violence cases by new workers or volunteers to ensure safety
of program participants.
II. How risk assessment tools help staff identify
dangers
Given appropriate training on domestic violence as
described in the previous section, supervised visitation
providers should recognize that all domestic violence cases
contain some level of risk. Having some information regarding
the risks that batterers present frequently leads to the
question of assessing those risks on site at supervised
visitation programs. Conducting a risk assessment is one tool
which may assist staff in identifying risk factors in a given
case. A risk assessment is simply a method of gauging
identified markers for both the assessment of current abuse
being experienced by a victim and a way in which providers
can make a initial determination whether the violence may
escalate. Unfortunately, although valuable risk assessment
tools exist--most created by the domestic violence
community--they have inherent limitations that may make them
misunderstood by supervised visitation staff. Those
limitations are discussed below:
How Most Risk Assessments Were Created
Empirical evidence about the risks created by batterers
comes in large part from fatality reviews. We know, for
instance, about the great risks of separation violence
(13)13Children of Domestic Violence: Risks and
Remedies, Barbara Hart
http://www.mincava.umn.edu/documents/hart/risks.shtml from
studying the deaths of women who were murdered by their
intimate partners. For example, a Florida Governor's Task
Force on Domestic and Sexual Violence Mortality Review
Report in 1997 revealed that in a study of domestic
homicides in Florida, 65% of intimate homicide victims had
physically separated from the perpetrator prior to their
death.
(14)14Florida Governor's task Force on Domestic and
Sexual Violence, Florida Mortality Review Project Report,
1997.We know that fathers and their agents
commit most child abductions, that most occur in the
context of domestic violence, and that 41% of child
abductions occur between the time of separation and
divorce.
(15)15Children of Domestic Violence: Risks and
Remedies, Barbara Hart
http://www.mincava.umn.edu/documents/hart/risks.shtml We
also know that supervised visitation and exchange services
present opportunities for batterers to know exactly when
and where their partners will be at specific times, and
how that can be a lethal opportunity. In 1998, Melanie
Edwards and her seven-year-old daughter were shot and
killed by Mrs. Edward's estranged husband at a Seattle,
Washington monitored exchange program in 1998. All
domestic violence cases potentially present dangers;
however, it is problematic to determine whether a specific
batterer will attempt to kill a particular victim. As the
American Psychological Association notes:
There is no way to predict whether a specific
batterer is likely to kill his partner. Even though data
are available about batterers who actually commit such
murders, the batterer's violence behavior alone does not
provide enough information about accurate predictions
about which batterers will go on to kill the partners.
Psychotherapists can use a variety of checklists and other
instruments to help determine the level of risk for a
lethal incident, but these assessment devices have not
been validated by empirical research.
(16)1616Violence and the Family: Report of the
American Psychological Association Presidential Task Force
on Violence and the Family, American psychological
Association, 39 (1996).
What are commonly identified risks?
Several of the oft-cited risk factors of batterers
include:
•Escalation of physical or other forms of
violence
•Recent acquisition or change in use of weapons
•Suicidal or homicidal ideation, threats, or
attempts
•Change in substance use/ abuse patterns
•Stalking or other surveillance/monitoring
behavior
•Centrality of the victim
•Jealousy / obsessiveness about, or preoccupation
with the victim
•Mental health concerns connected with the violent
behavior
•Other criminal behavior or injunctions
•Increase in personal risk taking (e.g. violation of
restraining orders)
•Interference with the victim's help-seeking
attempts
•Imprisonment of the victim in her home
•Symbolic violence, including the destruction of the
victims' pets or property
•The victim's attempt to flee the batterer or to
terminate the relationship
•Batterer's access to the victim or her family
(17)17Maureen Sheeran and Scott Hampton, Supervised
Visitation in Cases of Domestic Violence, Juvenile and
Family Court Journal, Spring 1999. See also Barbara
Hart, Assessing Whether Batterers will Kill 1990,
available at
http://www.mincava.umn.edu/hart/lethali.htm
Who conducts risk assessment?
Despite their close ties with domestic violence
shelters in their communities, many supervised visitation
program staff do not have the level of expertise necessary
to conduct formal risk assessments. Therefore, it should
be domestic violence professionals who should conduct the
assessments, not visitation personnel:
These domestic violence professionals have
accumulated their expertise by seeking out workshops and
training programs that focus on the unique nature of this
societal problem. By specializing in their field, they
know how to interview the parties to get the maximum
information in the least intrusive way, and are better
able to assess and understand the meaning of the
information they have gathered. They are less likely to be
fooled by the manipulative and socially adept batterer,
and more likely to be sensitive to some of the indicators
of potential lethality.
(18)18Lavita Nadkarni &Barbara Zeek Shaw, Making a
Difference: Tools to Help Judges Support the Healing of
Children Exposed to Domestic Violence. 39 COURT REVIEW 24,
Summer 2004.
When domestic violence personnel conduct risk
assessments, however, the information they receive is
privileged in many states, and can not be obtained by the
batterer. By contrast, the information received by the
supervised visitation program from batterers and victims
alike may be considered public records. Each visitation
program should consult with an attorney familiar with
state domestic violence issues and law concerning
privilege and confidentiality to consider issues of
sharing information with and from domestic violence
centers.
Other inherent limitations
Besides the fact that violence in a particular case is
difficult to predict, risk assessments can be limited by
the source of information. This problem occurs when
supervised visitation personnel attempt to identify known
risks in a case--as they frequently do--by researching
family history, court pleadings, police reports, and
background checks. If the program attempts to obtain such
information from the victim, several problems may hamper
that effort. First, although studies show that victims
appreciate questions from professionals about the safety
of their children,
(19)19For a good discussion of this type of
questioning by medical professionals, see, e.g. Screening
for Intimate Partner Abuse Violence when Children are
Present: The Victim's Perspective, Journal of
Interpersonal Violence, Vol. 18, No. 8, August
2003there may be dangers in eliciting that
information in the presence of children. The victim may
not want to discuss the matter in the presence of the
children, because he or she doesn't want the children
involved, and even children who may not appear to be
listening to the interview may later repeat to the
perpetrator statements that the victim made about the
abuse. One way to address this dilemma is to have a staff
member bring the children to a different room during the
interview.
Another problem is that asking the victim to admit to
violence may cause to fear that she looks as though she is
failing to protect the children.
(20)20The concept of failure to protect is the subject
of many articles. For an overview of the issues, see Randy
Magen, In the Best Interests of Battered Women:
Reconceptualizing Allegations of Failure to Protect, CHILD
MALTREATMENT, Vol. 4 No.2 , May 1999.(Note: the
concept of failure to protect means that the victim is
viewed by child welfare or law enforcement officials as
failing to intervene to prevent children from witnessing
abuse or failing to intervene when the batterer directs
violence toward the children. In some states, victims of
domestic violence may be charged with failure to protect
and knowing this, may not disclose information about abuse
to supervised visitation staff.) Finally, the victim may
be in denial about the actual risk from a partner. These
factors, added to the fact that supervised visitation
records--and what the victim says about her batterer--are
usually discoverable in litigation, can endanger the
victim if the program does not think through how to
balance long and short term safety interests.
Another consideration in determining known risks is how
to help staff interpret the mysterious codifications of
background checks. The meaning of arrests, pleas, and
convictions can be extremely difficult for non-law
enforcement personnel to understand and differentiate.
Additionally, an extensive criminal history of petty
theft, or passing worthless bank checks may say more about
an individual's poverty than about risks at visits.
Supervised visitation staff should have knowledgeable
assistance in clarifying the results of background checks
to make them truly meaningful for risk assessment. Even if
professionals conduct formal risk assessments for
supervised visitation programs, and even if the
information programs gather is accurate and
understandable, one ongoing risk to programs is the risk
of complacency. If visitation staff are told (or conclude)
that a case is not of heightened risk, they may feel a
false sense of security. Thus, they may lower their
scrutiny of cases and allow danger to be increased on
site.
Pragmatic Approaches
One might ask at this juncture: What good are risk
assessments or knowing the risks in the case? The answers
are purely pragmatic. Most speak to how programs view
their mission, and whether they can tailor their services
to provide meaningful assistance to victims and their
children.
First, programs that have gathered information about
risks need to decide whether they will ever reject a case
as being too dangerous. No doubt there will be resistance
to answering this in the affirmative from judges who
believe they have already gauged risk, and from program
staff themselves, who believe that they must provide the
service to victims. But a fundamental question remains:
Does a program, once it provides service to anyone, have
to provide service to everyone? Does an obligation to a
victim arise, for instance, if staff believe that the
court may allow unsupervised visitation if a program
refuses to supervise it? Every program must struggle with
the question and its ramifications.
Second, programs will determine from their information
gathering or risk assessment that most cases will be
suitable for visits, but some cases require additional
considerations or restrictions. Sometimes a pattern of
risk surrounding the victim's transportation becomes
apparent: e.g., the batterer knows the victims model and
make of car and knows how to look for it. Knowing this,
visitation staff can help plan alternate forms of
transportation for a victim to and from visits, or suggest
a relative to drive the children to the program.
Similarly, programs will determine that an alcoholic
batterer is more violent when drinking, and staff decides
to condition visits on the batterer's passing a
breathalyzer before each visit. Other examples are
programs that review records and determine that the case
is not appropriate for group visit; programs may require a
one to one ratio for supervision of visits (one staff to
one noncustodial parent). These are all examples of using
case information to keep victims safe in the short term;
they have the added long term advantage of holding the
batterer accountable for the violence.
III. How incidents of domestic violence and stalking
can be reduced at programs
As described above, there are a number of behaviors that
indicate that a batterer is dangerous, including stalking
behavior.
(21)21Stalking is not the only dangerous behavior of
which a batterer is capable. See, e.g. Sharon Maxwell and
Karen Oehme, Strategies to Improve Supervised Visitation
Services in Domestic Violence cases,
http://www.vaw.umn.edu/documents/commissioned/strategies/strategies.html Unfortunately,
supervised visitation staff who are untrained in domestic
violence may mistake a batterer's behavior or jealously and
preoccupation with the victim as accidents at best, and an
annoyance at worst. The ways in which a batterer can stalk
his victim at supervised visits are only limited by the
batterer's imagination. Labeling this dangerous behavior
appropriately is the first step in preventing, identifying
and stopping it at visitation.
Examples of Common Batterer Behavior at Supervised
Visitation Programs
Behavior
Example
Stalking
Batterer is informed of a program's staggered
arrival &departure times but consistently
ignores the schedule and arrives just as partner
and children do.
Potential Risk: Batterers may be manipu-
lating the schedule in order to stalk victim by
having victim become aware of their presence,
being able to determine transportation of victim,
or being able to identify friends who accompany
victim &children to visit. Research on
domestic violence is clear that stalking of a
victim is a predictive factor for increased
violence.
Emotional control/Abuse and Threatening
Behavior
Batterers may bring certain items to their
scheduled visits which bear symbolic threats to
their victims. For example, a batterer brings a
flower to a visit for child to take back home.
Victim has been told that such a flower means a
threat of being killed.
Batterer brings battery-operated toys to visit
for children to play with. Toys stop working
during visit, visit monitor opens battery
compartment to check battery and discovers note
to victim hidden inside.
Potential Risk: Program staff must be alert to
the potential symbolic use of seemingly benign or
even "thoughtful" items brought to visits but
intended for their victims. Staff must be able to
assess manipulative behavior which can present
risk to victim and/or children.
Involving Child Witnesses
Batterer uses visit to repeatedly tell child
how much other parent is loved; how they will be
together soon, how child needs to tell other
parent to come home.
Potential Risk: Research indicates that child
witnesses to domestic violence often have
ambivalent feelings toward both parent who
perpetrates the abuse and the parent who is
victim. Children can experience emotional turmoil
if they are further caught in the middle by the
batterer. Visit monitors should be sensitive to
behaviors of the batterer which attempt to
involve children in conveying messages, etc.
Preventing additional episodes of domestic violence
and stalking at supervised visitation programs
Once supervised visitation staff realize the potential
for additional domestic violence episodes and stalking on
site, they can work toward preventing it with firm rules
including clear direction for staggered arrivals and
departures, policies pertaining to limitations on what
noncustodial parents can bring to supervised visits, and
procedures for re-directing or prohibiting discussions
about the other parent or the court case. They can examine
each case at intake and decide whether special
restrictions need to be incorporated in specific cases.
Finally, they can develop prevention strategies to enhance
victim safety at all stages of supervised visitation.
Responding to incidents of domestic violence and
stalking behaviors at supervised visitation
When prevention policies fail, batterers must be held
accountable for any acts of domestic violence at
supervised visitation. The key is that supervised
visitation staff must be vigilant enough to know that the
prevention policies failed. Without vigilance on the part
of staff, there is no real supervision. Authors Lundy
Bancroft and Jay Silverman touch on this issue in The
Batterer as Parent
(22)22LUNDY BANCROFT &JAY G. SILVERMAN, THE
BATTERER AS PARENT: ADDRESSING THE IMPACT OF DOMESTIC
VIOLENCE ON FAMILY DYNAMICS, Sage Publications,
2002.as they recite a litany of examples of
supervised visitation staff overlooking or missing
dangerous batterer behavior at visits.
Unfortunately, often the only power that the program
has involves asking the referring source (e.g. the court)
to further restrict or terminate supervised visits, or to
issue fines. Programs should work with their referring
source to gain the ability to use discretion in limiting
visits without returning to court. This flexibility will
allow program directors to operate their program in the
safest way they can without having to return to court, for
example, every time a batterer acts in an inappropriate
manner. Again, the issue of training arises here, to
ensure that directors given such discretion have had
extensive training in dealing with batterers and batterer
dynamics, but for our purposes we envision a director
well-versed in domestic violence issues. Given appropriate
training on how batterers may attempt to use the
visitation setting to stalk their partners and manipulate
staff, program directors who are given a certain amount of
flexibility and discretion can tailor visits and program
rules to address the problems in specific cases and make
visits safer.
An example of how this could work is if a batterer in a
specific case arrives late and meets the custodial parent
in the parking lot of a visitation program. The director
may suspect stalking behavior. The commonly recommended
staggered schedule would have the batterer arriving a full
fifteen minutes before his partner.
(23)23See, eg., NYSPCC Handbook, supra note 2, at
76.When given the flexibility to address
concerns in specific cases without immediately returning
to court, however, the director might decide to require
that the batterer arrive even earlier for the next visit,
say an additional half-hour, or the time it takes for the
custodial parent to get from a safe setting to the
visitation program. Staff could telephone the custodial
parent and inform her that the visit will occur,
eliminating the possibility that the two will meet.
Similarly, if the victim needs extra time to leave the
premises and neighborhood after a visit, the director
should be able to require the visiting parent to wait for
additional time before leaving the program grounds.
Program policies should be flexible enough to allow the
director discretion to make these alterations, without
going back to court each time. There will be times, of
course, when the appropriate course of action is going
back to court; however, a judge is not present at the
program when the parent showed up late, and the account of
the behavior loses much of its power in the retelling in a
judge's chamber. Therefore, the best approach is for the
director to maintain the authority to make educated
decisions about the best course of action considering the
factors. This would include the ability to suspend and
terminate visits when necessary for the safety of a victim
or her children. Such authority should be part of the
court order, so that parties have notice of it.
Courts holding batterers accountable
The court system is also responsible for holding
batterers accountable for their actions. Judges generally
have more tools at their disposal, such as:
•
Orders of Civil Contempt: Holding
batterers in contempt of court for violations of
program rules lets them know that their behavior is
recognized and unacceptable.
•
Orders for Batterer Intervention
Programs: If the court has not already done
so, an order for the perpetrator to attend a Batterer
Intervention Program is one response the court may have
to a batterer's violating supervised visitation
policies with stalking or other violent behavior.
•
Orders Suspending or Terminating the right to
visitation: Whether or not a program director
has the power to suspend visits, the court can always
exercise this power. This remedy helps to remove the
batterer's control over the victim and ensures that the
behavior will not be repeated at a visitation
program.
•
Orders of sole parental responsibility for the
victim: Egregious behavior, flaunting and
violating the rules, and endangering staff may directly
impact the best interest of the child and require
severe measures, such as denying parental
responsibilities to the batterer.
•
Charges of Criminal Conduct: Some
behavior on-site is criminal in nature. When a batterer
threatens or assaults a staff member, for instance,
that behavior is criminal and should be treated as such
in the criminal justice system and by the program
staff.
IV. How liability issues can be addressed by
programs
Cases sent to supervised visitation programs are, by their
nature, some of the most difficult cases in the court system.
The sheer volume of court cases in areas such as dependency,
custody, paternity and neglect has been described as a
"skyrocketing caseload"
(24)24Judith S. Kaye and Jonathan Lippman, New York State
Unified Court System: Family Justice Program: 36 Family and
Conciliation Courts Rev. 144 (1998).for judges.
These are the cases in which supervised visitation is
used.
The United States has already been described as a
"litigation nation"
(25)25See Stuart Taylor, Jr. and Evan Thomas, Civil Wars,
Newsweek, Dec. 15, 2003.in which lawsuits are
already all too common. Batterers bring additional dynamics
into the fray: they may turn the legal system into a
"symbolic battleground"
(26)26Violence and the Family, Report of the American
Psychological Association, 40(1996).to continue
their abuse. Studies show that fathers who batter are twice
as likely to seek sole physical custody of their children,
and are "more likely to engage in protracted legal disputes
over all aspects of the divorce."
(27)27Id.Added to this mix is the reality that
there are many instances in which parents have sued those
professionals and paraprofessionals that the court asks for
assistance in disputed custody, dependency and divorce cases.
With the specter of lawsuits looming over supervised
visitation providers (some parents threaten programs "daily"
(28)28Survey of Providers, conducted by the Clearinghouse
on Supervised Visitation at the May, 2002 Supervised
Visitation Network Conference, on file with the
authors.) we predict that lawsuits against
individuals who work at those programs are not far in the
future.
The threat of litigation is already widely perceived as
inhibiting the provision of many important services,
including education and health care.
(29)29Id, note 24 at 73.Given that it is only
a matter of time before a high-profile lawsuit is filed
against a worker at a visitation program, it is useful to
examine the protections offered other community members who
assist the courts, and to ask the public policy question of
what protections may be crafted for program providers.
At the outset it should be noted that it is the threat of
lawsuits, not large numbers of lawsuits, that is of concern.
A relative handful of suits filed by disgruntled parents
could discourage or even halt the development of supervised
visitation services by intimidating volunteers and staff,
diverting resources to legal fees, and inflating insurance
premiums. These kinds of concerns are what led many state
legislatures to write legislation making CASAs and GALs
immune from civil liability: more than a dozen states grant
immunity from civil liability to these program staff and
volunteers if they act in good faith, without gross
negligence or willful misconduct, and in the scope of their
duties.
(30)30See, e.g.,FLA.STAT.ANN.
§
39.822(1)(West,2003);705 ILL.COMP.STAT.ANN.405/2-17.1
(West,2003);IND.CODE ANN.
§
31-15-6-9 (West,1998)KAN.STAT.ANN.
§
38-1505a(b)(2002);LA.CIV.CODE
ANN.art.424.10(West,2002);ME.REV.STAT.ANN. tit.4,
§
1506(West,2003);MONT.CODE.ANN.
§
41-3-1010(2002);NEB.REV.STAT.
§
43-3716(2002).
Judges who make decisions in contested cases have long
been immune from suit, pursuant to the doctrine of absolute
judicial immunity, which protects judges' decisions even if
their acts are corrupt or intentionally harmful. The
protection holds for all judges, from county courts to the
Supreme Court, as long as they are performing judicial acts
that are not clearly beyond their jurisdiction.
(31)31Jeffrey M. Shaman, Judicial Immunity from Civil and
Criminal Liability, 27 San Diego L. Rev. 1,5
(1990).Mediators are another group who are
provided immunity by some state statutes,
(32)32See, e.g. ARIZ.REV.STAT.ANN.
§
12-2238 (West 2003);ALASKA STAT.
§
47.12.450 (Michie, 2002);S.C.ALT.DISPUTE
RESOL.8(i)(2001);COLO.REV.STAT.
§
13-22-305(6).as are mandatory reporters of
child abuse, and child protection workers in social services
agencies.
(33)33Legislatures have long recognized the importance of
immunity for child protection workers. A few of the laws
granting immunity include MD. LAWS, ch.308
§
5-708; MICH.COMP.LAWS.ANN.
§
722.625(5) (West 2002); N.Y.SOC.SERV.LAWS
§
419(McKinney 2003)A relatively new group
of professionals commonly requested for their assistance is
parenting coordinators. In Florida, the Association of
Conciliatory Courts has drafted proposed legislation which
would provide immunity to parenting coordinators who act in
good faith.
(34)34See
www.flaafcc.org/Documents/PCStatute-011504.pdfAs
the courts ask for help with tough cases dealing with severe
familial dysfunction, new categories of service providers are
created. In order to protect themselves, these groups
frequently ask for civil tort immunity. No state, however,
currently provides any protection from civil liability to
supervised visitation providers, and we know of no state that
has ever introduced such legislation. Instead, the states
that provide some guidelines to supervised visitation
programs require them to carry liability insurance. The
existence of such insurance, however, does not obviate the
potential problem of tort cases in the visitation setting,
because defending such cases is usually time consuming and
draining on staff. In addition, insurance may not cover all
claims, depending on the terms of the policy.
Best practices dictate that staff and volunteers should
avoid going beyond the scope of their duties, act in good
faith, and avoid wanton recklessness or criminal activity.
These actions will not guarantee the absence of lawsuits, but
may be the best defenses against them.
Knowing the scope of supervised visitation duties is
essential for all program staff and volunteers. A
well-meaning monitor who decides to bring a child home with
her practically invites a lawsuit, regardless of whether the
child is upset, for instance, because he makes an allegation
against one of his parents. Similarly, staff should be clear
about their roles in transporting visitation participants,
avoid the unlicensed practice of law when giving advice to
those participants, and steer clear of allowing the parents
to believe staff are licensed clinicians if they are not.
Acting in good faith requires a visit monitor to believe that
she is doing what is in the child's best interest at visits.
If, for example, the monitor terminates a visit because she
believes the parent's berating of a child is putting child is
at risk for emotional or physical harm, a visiting parent
might accuse her of interference with parental rights. Among
her defenses will be her good-faith attempt to serve the
child's best interest.
Wanton recklessness and criminal activity are clearer
standards. If a batterer presents known risks to a child, and
the visit monitor leaves the child unattended during the
visit and her parent subsequently harms her, the monitor may
be accused of wanton recklessness and may not be able to
defend against this accusation. Similarly, criminal
activities by a monitor will not be excused simply because of
the special visitation setting in which they take place.
Thus, if a monitor steals money from a parent's diaper bag,
no protection from criminal liability can be expected.
V. How court orders can increase protection for
victims and children
There are valid reasons for programs to require a
court-ordered referral, although there are disadvantages.
Most of the disadvantages stem from the program's reluctance
to require victims of domestic violence to enter (or reenter)
a court system in which the victim has no confidence, or in
which the victim has been disbelieved or treated unfairly. On
the other hand, we find it unrealistic to expect that
batterers will simply volunteer to have their visitation with
their children supervised, given common batterer
characteristics such as a sense of entitlement
(35)35According to Bancroft and Silverman, entitlement is
the overarching attitudinal characteristic of batterers.
Bancroft &Silverman, supra note 24, at 7.and
denial of their violence and the impact it has on their
children. Even if victims could convince their partners to
agree to supervised visits, such informal arrangements lack
important protections for victims and their children that
only the court system can provide.
Once a court order is signed, two things happen. First,
the court has now clearly specified that the batterer is
entitled only to supervised visits. Without such a document,
a batterer may still be considered to have shared custody of
his children. If he absconds with the child during an
informal visit, when no formal child custody determination
has been made, it may not be considered abduction. If there
is no court order delineating a child custody determination
(temporary or permanent) to the contrary, the law may not
consider the batterer's actions illegal. If a batterer
court-ordered to visitation flees with the child during a
supervised visit, staff should call the police and
immediately provide proof that the batterer has violated the
law. A simple directive in every order--e.g., "The court
hereby authorizes law enforcement officers in this state to
take all measures necessary to enforce this order and prevent
the removal of the child from the supervised visitation
program"--makes the court's goals clear. This, in addition to
the program's education of and collaboration with law
enforcement on the purpose of supervised visitation will
increase safety and shorten response time.
(36)36If local law enforcement offices request stronger
language to authorize enforcement of an order for supervised
visitation, programs should consider crafting a provision
specifically listing the local law enforcement agencies by
name. Lawyers assisting supervised visitation programs should
be fully familiar with the Uniform Child Custody Jurisdiction
Enforcement Act.
Kidnapping is one risk associated with batterer
visitation. Additional risks may be caused by batterer
behavior associated with program rule violations. These
violations may go unpunished without the court's contempt
power. This is a good reason for having programs at least
participate in the drafting of a standard court order for
supervised visitation and incorporating by reference the
program's rules. Programs may decide to offer visitation
without a court order, but they should first have at least
considered the advantages and disadvantages of doing so.
Specific Court Order Information
When a court orders a family to use a supervised
visitation program, it often uses a standard court order
developed by the program itself in conjunction with a
circuit court judge and /or a local attorney. The
Clearinghouse recommends that orders should include at a
minimum:
1.The names and birth dates of the children who will
be using the center.
2.The type of service that the parties will be using
(e.g supervised visitation or monitored exchange.)
3.A provision that makes it clear that this is the
only contact that the non-custodial parent may have
with the child.
4.The address of the program and a contact name and
phone number. Some direction as to how the parties
should contact the program to arrange visitation is
usually necessary.
5.The schedule of visitation, including staggered
arrival and departure times, frequency (weekly, twice a
week, etc.), cost (including who will pay the fee -- in
domestic violence cases it should be the batterer --
and where the fee should be paid), and the duration of
the court order. Many programs do not have the
resources to keep cases for the long term.
6.The name of the person visiting the child and
whether anyone else can attend the visit with that
person (for example, grandparents, step-siblings,
step-parents, etc).
7.Any requirements for identification. (Some programs
keep photographs of all parents to ensure that the
children are returned to the right person, and in case
of child abduction.
8.The program rules incorporated by reference, and a
directive for the parties to comply with them.
9.A directive to law enforcement to prevent
unauthorized removal of the child (or child abduction)
from the visitation program.
10.A statement notifying the parties that failure to
comply with the program policies may result in
sanctions.
11.A statement authorizing the program to terminate a
visit when necessary.
12.A directive for parties to notify the program in
case of cancellation. Sometimes programs reserve the
right to request a doctor's note verifying illness if
too many visits are missed.
Other Sample Provisions for Court Orders
Below are listed several sample provisions which might
be considered for addition to a supervised visitation
program's standard court order, along with commentary (in
italics) to describe why or how the provisions are
used.
•
Provision authorizing law enforcement to
enforce the order to prevent parental
kidnapping.: The court hereby authorizes law
enforcement officers in this state to take all measures
necessary to enforce this order and prevent the removal
of the child from the supervised visitation program.
This provision makes it clear that removing a child
from a visitation program is contrary to court
order.
•
Provision for Records Release:The
following records shall be made available to the
Sunshine Visitation Program.
Provisions specifying what records should be made
available to the supervised visitation program in order
for a risk assessment to be conducted may be listed
here.
•
Provision for no additional contact by the
batterer.:Any contact with parent or child
other than at The Sunshine Family Visitation Program
center that occurs during the pendency of this Order
shall be reported to the referral source (list the
referral source here) or caseworker assigned to this
cause and may terminate visitation privileges.
This provision ensures that cases sent to the
program are not receiving additional, non-supervised
contact.
•
Provisions making visitation contingent on
treatment, counseling, or other
requirements.:The nonresidential parent's
visitation is contingent on his/her participation in
the following. The court directs the service provider
to send compliance reports directly to the court.
•Batterer's Intervention Program
•Substance Abuse Counseling
This provision may specify the required services,
service providers, and how reports are to reach the
visitation program.
•
Provision for videotape of visits.:The
program is instructed to videotape all visits between
the nonresidential parent and the child, and maintain
such records pursuant to the laws of the state.
•
Provision for Judicial Review:This
case shall be reviewed in ____ months.
In order for the court and service providers such
as batterer intervention programs to address the
underlying reasons for the referral to supervised
visitation, this provision for periodic judicial review
can be used to determine that the batterer is
addressing the violent behavior. While judicial review
is automatic in dependency cases and determined by
statute, most family law orders do not include
provisions for judicial review. Courts are encouraged
to add such a provision to all supervised visitation
orders so that batterers are held accountable for their
actions.
•
Provision for RecordsThe program shall
provide written reports regarding attendance at
visitation to the court as follows (e.g. three months,
a certain number of visits, or at some other period).
This provision directs the program to deliver
reports to the court on a certain schedule.
VI. How programs can avoid unintended outcomes in
program record keeping
Every single visit that occurs at supervised visitation
programs across the U.S. results in the production of
documents. Programs routinely create written forms for many
aspects of the visitation process: visit logs, authorizations
for alternate custodians, health forms, informational intake
sheets for parents to fill out in orientation sessions,
observation notes written at each visit, and critical
incident reports. If a parent uses a visitation program once
a week for six months, the case file can be several inches
thick.
Programs need these documents to administer the program
and to track cases. On the other hand, others in the court
system can also use these documents in ways in which the
program may not anticipate. Thus, program administrators
should scrutinize the purpose and potential uses for each
document with the assistance of an attorney who understands
family court rules and domestic violence dynamics.
(37)37For a discussion of some of these issues, see
generally, Nat Stern and Karen Oehme, The Troubling Admission
of Supervised Visitation Records in Custody Proceedings, 75
Temple L. Rev. 271 (2002).In addition, every
supervised visitation program should consult an attorney upon
the receipt of any subpoena, subpoena duces tecum, or any
request for records.
At a minimum, it is clear that some information collecting
is required at supervised visitation to keep track of
important data and protect the families using the program.
For example, basic information on parents and children, such
as the names, dates of birth, addresses, telephone numbers,
referral dates, other agencies involved, legal representation
information, status of custody determinations, parent and
child health or special needs information, and reasons for
referral are all important information to ensure that the
program has fundamental information regarding the family it
is serving. Additionally, as stated in the sections above,
background information such as police reports, criminal
background check information, and court pleadings relating to
violence, custody and visitation should be reviewed and made
a part of the program's case file. Finally, actual dates and
times of visits, when each parent arrived and left, and who
came to each visit should be logged by a program to document
for the referring source that visits actually took place.
Beyond this area defined by relative clarity of purpose lies
a vast field of information that is controversial because of
issues such as victim safety, staff interpretation, the
notion of 'objectivitity' in reporting what occurs at visits,
and the purposes for which lawyers and judges use them.
Intake Records
When each parent is introduced to the program at an
orientation program prior to the first visit, he/she is
generally asked to fill out intake forms. In domestic
violence cases, this information can be controversial
because there is currently no privilege surrounding this
information: that is, any information obtained from the
victim by supervised visitation staff is "discoverable" by
parties to the litigation. This means that batterers can
subpoena these records to find out what the victim has
told staff.
Victim advocates have expressed concern over several
aspects of this practice. First, victims may not be aware
that what they say to visit staff is not confidential;
they may be confused between the advocates who assist them
in shelter and court proceeding and those who ask the same
sorts of questions in the intake setting. Currently more
than half the states have statutory privilege for
communications between a counselor/advocate and a victim
of domestic violence or sexual assault,
(38)38see, e.g. ALA. CODE
§
15-23-40 to 46 (2002);KEN. RULE OF EVIDENCE
506(2002);NC. GEN.STAT 8-53.12 (2001); TENN. CODE ANN.
§
(2001); WISC. STAT.ANN.
§
895.67 (2001).but none provide
protection to communication between supervised visitation
staff and victims. Thus, victims may understand that their
statements to advocates cannot be subpoenaed, but do not
realize that the same kinds of statements made to visit
staff are not. (Victim address and telephone information
are protected in most states, but this may only offer an
illusion of safety, given the capabilities of the
Internet.)
Thus, visitation staff should always make clear to a
victim that there is no privilege for statements made.
Victims have a right to know how their statements can be
used, and may then reveal far less about the batterer when
they know he can find out exactly what was said to
visitation staff. There is a grave tension here when
victims want to keep their children safe, but do not want
to endanger themselves further by revealing more "family
secrets." To illustrate this dilemma, consider a female
victim who has taken an enormous risk. She has left her
violent partner, and obtained an injunction for protection
against domestic violence and an order for supervised
visitation. She may not know about the national statistics
of separation violence, but she understands the reality of
it in her life. When she arrives at intake and is told
that the records will not be confidential, she may make a
conscious decision not to reveal her partner's sexual
abuse cases of her children, hoping that they are safe at
visitation, and believing that the batterer will certainly
become enraged and punish her when he finds out she has
told someone. This is yet another bind for the battered
woman, and the program has lost some of its ability to
keep the children safe at visits when they are not told
about the sexual abuse. Supervised visitation staff may be
trained specifically in the dynamics of sexual abuse,
(39)39See, e.g. Child Sexual Abuse Issues in
Supervised Visitation: A Curriculum for Providers,
available at http://familyvio.ssw.fsu.edu, updated Nov.
2003but if they are not told of the problem, it
may very well remain invisible, and children can be subtly
reminded of the abuse, or even revictimized at visits
without staff suspecting anything amiss. Staff will have
to trust victim instincts regarding their own safety.
There are few options to deal with this dilemma. Those
supervised visitation programs operated by certified
domestic violence centers and staffed with certified
domestic violence advocates who have statutory privilege
may be able to obtain more information without worrying
about the above complications. Supervised visitation
programs that are only affiliated with or have
partnerships with domestic violence centers should consult
with attorneys to determine whether there is a way in
their particular state to protect victim's records by
having shelter staff conduct intake and keep those
records. In the hypothetical case above, it might mean
that a battered woman's advocate (in a state that confers
a statutory privilege on communications between that
advocate and a battered woman) discusses with the victim
the risks to the children, and then provides a
recommendation to the visitation program staff about
heightened security. If a program offers different levels
of security, the advocate could perhaps recommend the
strictest security. Our idea is one that requires fleshing
out with an attorney familiar with both domestic violence
and public records laws, and it may not be feasible in
many programs. It does show, though, the difficulty in
obtaining crucial information about safety, and returns us
full circle to the importance of training staff (in issues
such as child sexual abuse dynamics). The fact is that the
victim may not--for a variety of reasons--provide all of
the information necessary at intake for staff to keep her
children safe, placing a heavy burden on staff. All
domestic violence cases have the potential to be
dangerous. However, in some cases, there will be no way
for staff to fully ascertain the risks at intake. This
makes visit vigilance all the more crucial.
Observation Reports
Other records that cause concern are observation
reports, the notes recorded by the visit monitor at every
visit. Even the pioneers of supervised visitation services
in the U.S. recognized the potential for these records to
be used by parties to influence decisions about future
parental access to the children. Observation reports can
be misused to the detriment of battered women if program
staff, parents (and their lawyers), and judges do not
understand their purpose.
Environmental Issues
No matter how child-friendly a supervised visitation
program is, no matter how many toys it contains, and no
matter how unobtrusive staff attempt to be during the
visit, the visit environment is an artificial one, and
visitation is always sanitized to some extent. Parents can
choose to be on their best behavior--batterers can choose
to be cooperative-- for a few hours, and this behavior
should not be assumed to be how they would behave under
different circumstances. The Supervised Visitation Network
recommends the following language at the bottom of
observation notes: The observations are of parent-child
contacts, which have occurred in a structured and
protected setting.
No prediction is intended about how contacts
between the same parent(s) and Child(ren) might occur in a
less protected setting and without supervision.
(40)40SVN Guidelines, in NYSPCC handbook, supra note
2, appendix D.
Format Issues
Observation Notes themselves are usually forms that
either contain a response section in which a visit monitor
may describe what happened during a visit, or a series of
check-off boxes with sections such as "The child
laughed/smiled/cried when she saw the visiting parent," or
a combination of both.
(41)41See Id. Appendix D.There are two
overarching issues with the format of any observation
reports: first, programs must decide why they are writing
such reports, and then they must remember that although
they try to be 'objective,' staff always bring to such
documents their own cultural norms and opinions about what
'normal' parent-child interaction looks like.
Evaluations and Recommendations
Finally the use of Observation Notes is troubling.
Pearson and Thoennes found that parents think programs
should make recommendations about what should happen with
respect to custody and visitation in their cases, and
assess the validity of the allegations made against the
parents.
(42)42Jessica Pearson and Nancy Thoennes, Supervised
Visitation: The Families and Their Experiences, 38 FAM.
&CONCILIATION CTS. REV.123, 134 (2000).The
founders of SVN believed that programs would be under
"intense pressure" from the courts to make
recommendations. Programs should not, however, "evaluate"
parents or families, or make recommendations as to
unsupervised visits or long-term custody. It is
understandable that parents would misinterpret the mission
of a visitation program; however, courts should be clear
that most supervised visitation providers are not
clinicians and are not qualified to make recommendations
based on their observations of families. Courts should not
allow a batterer to use Observation Notes as evidence to
strengthen his request for custody or unsupervised
visitation. Courts' falling into this "trap of the good
visit"
(43)43See, Stern and Oehme supra note 41, at
299.can endanger victims. Simply because a
batterer chooses to comply with program rules, or because
a child smiles when she sees her parent, does not mean
that the parent is not dangerous or the alleged violence
did not occur. Yet again, staff training in the dynamics
of domestic violence and co-occurring child maltreatment
become overwhelmingly important. Observation Notes should
be developed by administration with the following
questions in mind:
1.What basic information must be collected in each
case to protect the victim and children?
2.What other information does the referring source
require? (For example, the court may require the
verification of dates and times of visits.)
3.What purpose does each additional piece of
information collected serve, and in whose interest are
we collecting it? How can we help ensure that it is not
misused.
4.Does our program need to work further with the
court system to help it understand the mission of our
program and the inherent "trap of the good visit?"
Conclusion
These issues are not easy to resolve, but they establish a
framework within which programs and their supporters can
strive to improve crucial services. Not one of the goals
expressed in this paper is impossible to attain, but each
requires thoughtful analysis (as the treatment of some of
these issues was superficial, requiring a program-by-program
analysis) and the involvement of the entire community.
Success, in this case, is enhanced safety for victims and
their children, the paramount goal of supervised visitation
in domestic violence cases.
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